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Warming up prospects before outreach

How to increase response rates by engaging with prospects first

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Written by Oleg Sobolev
Updated over 2 weeks ago

This guide explains how to warm up prospects through LinkedIn engagement before starting your outreach sequence.

Expected results

  • 50%+ reply rates on outreach sequences (vs 5-10% industry average)

  • 70% connection request acceptance rates (vs 30%-50% industry average)

  • ~20% of prospects start conversations themselves (before your first DM)

  • More meaningful first conversations

☝️ We A/B tested this: We split 1,000 prospects into two groups. Standard cold outreach got 8-26% reply rates, while warmed-up prospects (comments first, then connection, then waiting period, then DM) got 51-57% reply rates. About 15-20% of warmed prospects messaged us first.

Complete timeline

Phase

Timing

Activities

Why it matters

1. Warming up

1-2 weeks before connecting

Comment thoughtfully on 2-3 posts
Space comments 2-3 days apart

Creates familiarity
Targets your content to the prospect

2. Connection request

After warming up phase

Send a blank connection request

Feels natural after engagement
Higher acceptance rate

3. Waiting period

3 days - 4 weeks after acceptance

Continue commenting on their content
Post your own content
DO NOT send your first DM yet

Builds trust
Algorithm shows them more of your posts
Creates space for them to message first

4. Initial DM

After waiting period

Short, conversational opener
No pitch in first message

Feels like continuation, not cold outreach
Much higher response rates

5. Sequence

Next 2-6 weeks

3-4 value-adding follow up messages
Continued commenting weekly
Spacing 7-10 days between messages

Reinforces familiarity
Creates multiple touchpoints

6. Manual closing

After positive response

Move conversation to manual closing
Continue commenting during sales process
Add other stakeholders to nurturing

Maintains momentum
Builds relationship during sales process
Creates multi-threading

7. Long-term nurture

For "not now" prospects

Monthly touchpoints via comments
Periodic resource sharing via light DMs

Keeps you visible for future opportunities
Low effort, high potential return

8. List cleanup

After sequence ends

Keep high-value prospects for nurture
Archive or delete non-responders

Prevents list bloat
Maintains system efficiency

The workflow

1. Prepare your prospect list

  • Start with a small batch of 50-100 prospects you plan to reach out to. Upload their LinkedIn URLs into a new list in Extrovert.

  • Name your list based on timing (e.g. "March Batch 1") - this helps track when to start outreach.

  • You might want to add other roles from target accounts - people read their team's posts. E.g. include senior executives (CEOs, CxOs) even if you don't plan to reach out to them directly

  • Focus on active LinkedIn users - use "Posted on LinkedIn" filter in Sales Navigator

  • What if my prospects don't post? Some prospects rarely post but are active readers. Use our "reach prospects who don't post" feature to stay visible by commenting on posts from people they follow. This works best for big accounts or smaller TAMs when you can afford to spend time on indirect activities to build awareness.


2. Make initial touchpoints

  • Goal: Comment on every prospect in your list. Sweet spot is 2 comments per prospect, but you can do 1 or go for more if it makes sense.

  • Keep the list small (50-100 prospects) - this makes it much easier to track and complete initial comments for everyone.

  • You can sort the feed by Prospect name. That way you will see several posts coming from each prospect and will be able to choose which ones you want to engage with

☝️ Pro tip: Turn on delayed posting (Campaign β†’ Settings and sharing β†’ Delay between comments) to space out your comments naturally over several days


3. Warm up stage (3 days to several weeks)

Keep commenting on prospects' posts. Use these filters to stay organized:

  • Desired frequency to make consistent weekly touchpoints

  • Prospect list to focus on specific list

  • Post category to focus on relevant content

  • Posts per prospect to control how many posts you see from each person (prevents prospects who post a lot from taking over your feed)

  • Sort by Latest to see newest posts first

Sweet spot is weekly touchpoints - this keeps you visible without being too pushy. Check engagement metrics for every prospect in the post card.


4. Send connection requests

After warming up period, start sending connection requests to engaged prospects.


5. Strategic delay (3 days - 4 weeks)

After prospects accept your connection, wait before sending your first message. This is the step most people skip, but it's crucial for success:

  • Creates space for them to message first (about 15-20% will because they know you from comments)

  • Makes this feel much less transactional

  • Allows the familiarity and trust to build with comments and content (doesn't happen overnight)

  • Allows your posts to start appearing in their feed - when they like your comment, the algorithm shows them more of your posts

  • Creates space for them to check out your profile naturally

☝️ TAM adjustments: Enterprise/Limited TAM should wait 4-6 weeks for deeper relationship building. Large TAM can wait 3-5 days. If you post content regularly, wait longer in both cases.

☝️ Pro tip: This is the hardest part because it feels counterintuitive to wait. Set yourself a firm rule - your patience will be rewarded.


6. Start outreach

For prospects who haven't messaged first:

  • Begin your outreach sequence

  • Keep commenting during the entire sequence

Whatever outreach sequence you use - 2 weeks or 2 months - keep commenting during this time. Your sequence and comments work together: prospects see your messages in DMs and your thoughtful engagement on their posts.


7. Move warm prospects to permanent lists

When prospects respond positively, move them to permanent lists in Extrovert. This is crucial for long-term relationship building. Create separate lists for:

  • Hot opportunities (weekly touchpoints)

  • Longer-term prospects (bi-weekly)

  • Current customers (monthly)

  • Partners & champions (as needed)

Each list gets its own engagement schedule. This way you can focus more time on hot opportunities while keeping other relationships warm.


8. Clean up completed batches

After your sequence ends (usually 30 days), clean up your prospects:

  • Just delete the initial list as a whole

  • Everybody who replied had been moved to a permanent list before

  • It's important to make room for new prospect batches

Combining it with manual or automated outreach

With manual outreach:

You can use Extrovert as your main prospecting tool:

  • Comment on prospect posts

  • Wait for them to engage back

  • When they like or reply to comments - send a personalized DM referencing their posts

  • Keep nurturing with comments during conversations

With outreach tools:

  • Complete warm up stage in Extrovert

  • Export the prospect list as CSV

  • Import to your sequence tool

  • Start your normal sequence, continue nurturing in parallel

  • Move everybody who replied to permanent lists

  • When the sequence ends, delete the initial list from Extrovert to clean up

☝️ Pro tip: Use webhooks to automatically push warmed prospects (after X comments) to your sequencer. Then use our API to delete prospects from Extrovert lists after your sequence ends.

Combine with posting for better results

Comments work even better when combined with your own content:

  • LinkedIn shows your posts to prospects who like your comments.

  • It's a perfect way to target your content to your prospects

  • Constant commenting makes it more likely that your posts will not fade out from your prospects' feeds

  • Some prospects can come back themselves weeks or months after the sequence has ended

  • Comments help you be top of mind, posts help you explain your narrative, and DMs are a final push. That way DMs + Comments + Posts amplify each other

Implementation checklist

Before you start:

  • Block 15-30 minutes daily for commenting (non-negotiable calendar appointment)

  • Start with just 50-100 prospects (don't go crazy)

  • Have realistic expectations (results show up in weeks 4-6)

Daily process:

  • Comment on 8-10 people each day (better than trying 30 and burning out)

  • Track what you're doing

  • Stick with it for 21+ days before judging results

Common pitfalls to avoid

  • "I don't have time" - this replaces other prospecting, not adds to it

  • "It's not working" - giving up before 4-6 weeks (too early)

  • "I can do more" - trying to warm 200 prospects at once (you'll burn out)

  • "This isn't my voice" - overthinking comments (just be normal)

  • "I missed a day" - all-or-nothing thinking (just pick up where you left off)

How to know it's working

  • Connection acceptance rates go up (should hit 60%+)

  • Some prospects message you first (without you DMing them)

  • Responses feel warmer and more engaged

  • Meetings are easier to book

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